What I’ve Learned Via My Foray Into the Twitterverse

Or is it the “X-verse”?

One of the things I have repeatedly said (which some of you may remember) is that Twitter is in many if not most ways, an enemy of thoughtful discourse. This can easily be said about just about every variety of social media, but some are worse that others.

There’s Instagram, which I have been on for several years, though I rarely post anything. Its primary function in my life is keep up with family members around the country, church family photos, and to read the latest from the few Christian ministries I think produce sound doctrinal content. Before I continue, yes. I know that Instagram is owned by Facebook.

However, there’s Facebook proper, in it’s original format. I’ve never held an account and I eschewed it early on after learning of family feuds breaking out because one family member didn’t like something another one said about this or that topic. Also, I have the phone numbers of the few people from my high school that I have any interest in keeping up with. I’m generally not the Memory Lane type, so wondering “Whatever happened to so and so?” has never motivated me to take to Facebook.

And then, there’s Twitter. I avoided Twitter for a very long time. I only made an account because the format changed so that you couldn’t even read interesting threads unless you had an account. I still think it does more harm than good, due to its oversized reach when compared to the numbers of Americans who actually use the platform.

However, I also figured something out that’s pretty startling. One more than one occasion, I have known of people who wanted to make a formal complaint or request to their local governing officials. After doing things the old fashioned way (calling, emailing, etc), they only got responses when they took their complaint to social media (either Twitter or Facebook). Not only did they get swift replies, but they got replies from people who actually had the power to get something done, and got it done due to their keen awareness of the proximity of the voter who reached out. That, my friends, is very good to know!

Lastly, the simple fact of the matter is that news breaks on Twitter first. I’m not referring only to national and international news, but again; local stuff. One more than one occasion my husband has run into weird traffic at a weird time of day and called to ask if there was an accident since he couldn’t find the info on the radio. Twitter gave me the 411 (accidents, construction, etc) in less than a minute.

The above examples are the back story of how I went from “Twitter is evil!” to seeing some usefulness in it. I follow my county mayor even though I didn’t vote for him. I follow my district’s school board representative, even though we don’t use government schools. I follow our governor, and a few other government representatives and news outlets. However, and here’s where the learning part comes in: like Alice down the rabbit whole, I started following a bunch of other folks and found myself realizing once again, how unfruitful the Internet can be when it comes to the public discourse.

Among the non-essential accounts I follow are my favorite Reformed Christian content outlets such as Canon Press and Founders Ministries, as well as specific Bible teachers. There are few news outlets that I like, and a few independent content creators as well. The latter is mostly men and women of a traditionalist. anti-feminist mindset. Lastly, there are the political types, and I need not say more about that. So, what have I learned? Here goes:

  • Twitter denizens who spend exorbitant amounts of time there don’t seem to realize that things that blow up Twitter are often never even heard of among the 75% of Americans who are not active on Twitter. Being a part of two sizeable, highly conservative, traditional communities has proven this to be true.
  • The Twitterverse has elevated the picking of nits to an art form. One of the most glaring examples of this is the near constant bickering in Reformed Christian Twitter on the subject of so-called Christian Nationalism. I have a position (pro), but at this point I’m convinced that it doesn’t matter because by the time enough Christians are ever convinced that laws based on Christian morality are not oppressive, America will have fallen.
  • Race consciousness is dialed up to 11. It’s one of the things that makes me grateful that Twitter is used by only roughly 23% of Americans and that broadcast news has largely fallen out of favor with most people on the left and the right. While it is impossible to miss attempts to use ethnic differences to draw our attention away from the fact that we are being pillaged and plundered by our leaders, it’s not as bad as it would be if more people were on Twitter.
  • Twitter’s battle of the sexes makes the early “red pill” blogosphere look like kindergarten stuff. Both the feminists and the masculinists (is that redundant?) use the most inflammatory rhetoric they can to boost engagement with their content. The toxicity is enough to make you wonder how we are still propagating the species, until you remember that:
  • Twitter is NOT AT ALL representative of what people are thinking and talking about in the real world. Yes, in certain circles (ours for example) many of the hot topics are discussed and touched upon, but not nearly with the same level of nitpicking, taking sides without nuance, or allowances for human realities.
  • There is some utility to social media sites such as Twitter if you can approach them with a measured assessment of things, and temper your time there. One of the things I have found myself noting over the past 11 months is that drastically reducing my time online has been -easily- one of the best decisions I have made. It makes it much easier to look at the topics du jour from a detached perspective which allows for noting the beam in my own eye before obsessing over the speck in my brother’s.

Whelp. That’s what I’ve learned from Twitter over the past year. If there are more things to notice, feel free to add to the list in the comments.

12 thoughts on “What I’ve Learned Via My Foray Into the Twitterverse

  1. Will S. says:

    A couple of times a year I get together with some normie friends from back in high school.

    It reminds me that Twitter is not the real world; their Twitter presence in minimal, far as I can tell.

    It’s too useful a resource for me to get away from, though.

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  2. Bike Bubba says:

    The thing that is most obvious, and horrendous, to me is something the late columnist Mike Royko of the Chicago Tribune noticed about 30 years back. More or less, he observed that people would say things in an internet chat room that they would never say in a coffee shop, let alone a bar, and that his speculation was that they’d have trouble bench-pressing an egg salad sandwich.

    In case you want to apply that to me, I bench-pressed TWO egg salad sandwiches today at lunch. TWO. :^) (now where’s my ice and aspirin?)

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  3. Elspeth says:

    I should make a note: This post is not a declaration that I am no longer going to use Twitter. It is exactly what it says it is: a list of what I’ve learned about the platform since creating an account there.

    There are entire days that go by when I’m not on any web platform at all (except email), so overuse of the Internet is no longer an issue for me. I don’t need to ban myself from using it. 

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  4. hearthie says:

    I have a twitter account, which I seldom use – just to post articles and whatnot. I *should* use it, because I want my Deep Thoughts to get more publicity. But I don’t like arguing. If y’all drop your handles I’ll follow you though :D. I’m Hearthrose_IC

    I have found the same amount of utility on FB as Els has on X as far as keeping up with local news and -glory- I even got a sidewalk fixed by publicizing it on my city’s page. I think this is a YMMV situation, where a little publicity at the right moment can do the job, and it doesn’t make much difference which social media outlet you’re using. 

    As an aside, I officially put in my objection to having to use social media to get news/traffic/fire updates in my town of 200K. Forget right/left – could SOMEONE in the local news please tell me when the freeway is backed up, why, and where the smoke is coming from? (70% of the time no, because I live on the northern edge of my county). 

    “Watch out for [this particular homeless person] because they [insert extremely problematic behavior]” is also a social media feature. That’s how I learned that “Guy With the Knife” really really doesn’t like women/children. ”Lady Who Takes Off Her Clothes” seems to be pretty chill. ”Lady with Dufflebag” will get in your car if she can. This is useful knowledge if you live here. 

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    • Elspeth says:

      I agree with you Hearth. It’s kind of crazy that the fastest and most efficient means of updates on local impact stories is social media.

      My neighborhood is pretty quiet, but I have gotten the occasional good intel from NextDoor.

      I only check in on that place about once a month though, unless I’m looking for something specific such as, “who is the irresponsible person letting their dog wander out every morning around 6 when I’m out for my walk”?

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  5. professorGBFMtm says:

    i at one time multiple years ago had a facebook account that i made only to see that my first girlfriend’s life was going well.

    Otherwise?i stay away from any social media stuff.

    Also you will be getting a notice or better said ”moderating comment” on something that was essentially a tribute to you from one of your oldest friends recently that i’m sure you know nothing about a few minutes after i post this.

    So check for it.😉

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  6. Youknowwho says:

    E.

    Deti did a semi-tribute to you yesterday at spawnyspace i thought you would like to know is all so i decided to leave this moderating comment of it here.

    thedeti says:

    3 April, 2024 at 3:33 pm

    Well, I have no problems with a woman being a tradwife. Or a working wife. Or a SAHM. Or in a career as half of a power couple/DINKs.

    As long as they discuss it and they agree on it and it’s what husband wants too.

    Elspeth had the best take on this. What should a wife do? What her husband wants, and what’s best for the family. If her husband thinks she should work, she should work. If he thinks she should be a SAHM, then she should do that. If he wants her to work part time, she should do that. If he wants her full time in a power job, she should do that. Elspeth did all those things at various times in her marriage to SAM, because it was what he wanted and it was best for their family.

    The problem here is women deciding what’s best for them, individually, and not what’s best for their men, their marriages, or their families. If women really view life this way, they don’t need husbands or children. They need to work to fund however they want to live.

    I have no problem with women doing whatever they want. Work, don’t work. Work full time, work part time. Be a SAHM. All I expect is that she accept all the consequences of her choices, and she pays for it and does not expect anyone else to pay for it.”

    P.S. See why i thought you would want to see it now?

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  7. Liz says:

    Twitter yesterday:

    Someone: “Gee inflation is terrible (long list of things that are more expensive now)”

    Me: “Went to the frozen yogurt store in Boulder and one large serving cost 16 dollars before tip. I was expecting it to be expensive, but even so my jaw dropped”.

    (masses of imbeciles triggered):

    …everything from “that’s not expensive” to “you should not buy luxuries you can’t afford! Let that be a lesson to you!”

    Good Lord. I need to completely stop reading that stuff and go back to watching puppy and cat videos.

    Side note: You are definitely right about businesses and attention. If you have a bad flight for example, the fastest course of action to rectify the problem is to go on social media. They will definitely respond.

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